Mental health charity urges people to set realistic goals to avoid disappointment

Turn2Me, a national mental health charity, is encouraging people to “aim for progress, not perfection” in their New Year’s Resolutions.

The charity said that many people set unrealistic New Year’s Resolutions for themselves, which often leads to disappointment and a feeling of failure. The charity said that setting a small number of realistic goals is more achievable. The charity also stated that starting something new, instead of ‘giving something up’, can be a healthier goal.

“Everyone associates New Year’s with resolutions, such as losing an extreme amount of weight, restricting your diet, not watching TV in the evenings, or exercising every day.

“Instead of setting lots of unrealistic New Year’s Resolutions, which often lead to disappointment if they can’t be maintained or achieved, setting a smaller number of realistic goals can be more achievable. For example, if you only go to the gym once a month, instead of committing to the gym every day, commit to going twice or three times a week.

“That is more maintainable and realistic. Goals that aren’t realistic can lead to feelings of disappointment and failure. It might also be a good idea to consider starting something new, instead of giving something up, like starting a new part-time course, signing up for a walking or hiking group, joining a book club or a drama society. New Year’s is a good time for new beginnings or starting a new project. It doesn’t have to mean detoxes and rigid diets,” Fiona O’Malley, CEO of Turn2Me, said.

Turn2Me is running free support groups on anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship issues for anyone struggling with their mental health in 2023. Turn2Me also offers free one-to-one counselling sessions and a free ‘Thought Catcher’ mood diary.

To sign up for any of these free mental health services, go to


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